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PAINFUL SEX??

August 14, 2019


Oh hi babes! Have you ever gone to have penis in vagina sex and your vagina was like NOPE That s*** hurts! Get OUT! You’re not alone, and no – it’s not in your head Let’s talk about pain during sex. Y’all have emailed me about this a *lot* over the years so I’m going to talk about some of the most obvious causes to some kinda sneaky causes for pain during penetrative sex. and I’m specifically talking about pain in the vagina – not pain in the pelvic area not a pain in the ass – there are a lot more causes of that. First, and perhaps most obviously – mismatched genitals also known as… the burden of the Big D. You can ease this type of pain by making sure you’re really, REALLY aroused before any penetration adding lubrication of course [singing] Lu-u-u-uuube [singing] I wanna make a song about [singing] my love for lube And having sex positions that sort of bring things down a notch, and give you more control. like cowgirl or spooning. Another cause is sometimes a tight vaginal corona aka your hymen If this is your first time putting things in your vagina Congratulations! You may need a little bit of stretching with your fingers and lube, I did a whole video about that it’s right there! It’s actually amazing how many videos I have about vaginas… Probably more than anyone… I’m like the vagina queen of YouTube Menopause! That’s another thing Menopause causes a decrease in estrogen, which can cause vaginal tightness and dryness – but good news! Science is awesome, and there are some remedies for this, so talk to your doc. Okay, so those are some of the obvious culprits Let’s talk about those sneaky motherf*****s. The most common sneaky cause of vaginal pain during sex is actually… infections Daaaaamn Yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, urinary tract infections, herpes, chlamydia, gonna.. gorrona… Gonorrhea Some of these are sexually transmitted, some are not Sometimes pain during sex is the only symptom that you do have an infection So go to the doctor and get screened for all the things! Another common sneaky thing Maybe you’re allergic to latex condoms So cool, look at these alternatives! From ‘cides with nonoxynol-9s and lube that has some bad junk in it it can also be irritating. Oh.. and some people are also allergic to semen! So, y’know, just stay away from penises forever. Another cause! IBS! Probably not thinking about your bowel movements while you’re having sex Well, actually, maybe you are But if you have IBS, or symptoms of IBS, getting that under control can sometimes take away the symptom of painful sex. The last two common causes are relatively uncommon conditions. But they do happen. Like endometriosis About 7% of women have a condition where their uterine lining can grow outside of their uterus and then that tissue can start to shed, just like your cycle owwww Endometriosis is kinda wild. The two most common symptoms of endo? 1) Really painful periods and 2) really painful sex. If you’re at the end of your rope, you definitely want to talk to a doctor to rule that out. Another condition some folks have is called vaginismus This condition causes the muscles in the vagina to reflexively contract really really tightly A lot of people experience this as their vagina just being too small to put anything in. which makes sex really painful, if not impossible. It can stem from past painful experiences, sexual trauma, sexual assault, things like that But not always. The good news is that vaginismus is treatable! This is a reflex that can typically be unlearned and I put more info below as well as some books on the topic and again, talk to your doc. But what if you rule all of these out? Arrrghhh! Keep calm. I promise you’re not doomed to a life of painful sex. There are a lot of other way less common causes ranging from physical to emotional stuff. and it’s gonna be a matter of really getting down to the bottom of it. Persistence and patience – don’t give up! And remember – penetration is not the only way to have pleasure and intimacy with your partner and if it’s your partner who’s in pain, remember to be very communicative gentle, reassuring, some of those basic healthy relationship skills there does not have to be an emotional wedge between you and your partner. Okay babes! Wishing you the bestest, most pleasurable of sexy times! Tweet me any questions if you have them, and I’ll see you next time! Mwaaah! my inst @gerusha09

99 Comments

  • Reply Beautiful Disaster July 3, 2016 at 11:01 pm

    I just found your channel. Love it. Very helpful. New subscriber 😊

  • Reply LukasFilms July 4, 2016 at 5:17 am

    i have one eyeball for each gender.

  • Reply Hope Tikvah July 6, 2016 at 3:24 am

    Can you make a video about the different sexual orientations such as pan sexual, aromatic, asexual, bisexual and others?

  • Reply Lark Horse July 7, 2016 at 11:45 am

    Remember to never finish on debussy, always finish on the bach

  • Reply Kayla Harper July 8, 2016 at 10:32 pm

    It's also worth noting that Mirena causes painful sex A LOT. I'm currently dealing with it myself (it feels like stabbing the cervix with a needle).

  • Reply AARON DUDEZKI July 12, 2016 at 2:44 am

    a pain in the vag? its called fucking a big cock that's the only pain my gf gets in the vag LOL

  • Reply Sexy Leviathan July 15, 2016 at 10:41 am

    Your thumbnail looks like a dumbfounded teacher

  • Reply TheSheepPimp July 17, 2016 at 8:41 am

    who cares if the female feels pain, just fuckin deal with it bitches

  • Reply doug stuffly July 17, 2016 at 11:53 am

    This video actually made me curious, I would be interested to see one on Erectile dysfunction. I am a new subscriber, so you may have covered it, but it could help a lot of people. It happens, and it is confusing. The best simile I can offer women is that it is like when the laws of physics break down; like you go to poor out water and it won't leave the cup, or you can only see in the dark and have no damn idea why.

  • Reply Krizis July 20, 2016 at 3:41 pm

    I bet you never had sex

  • Reply Algahiem July 23, 2016 at 1:13 pm

    You wanna talk about painfull sex? Try getting to third base with a porcupine.

  • Reply Darius July 23, 2016 at 6:58 pm

    Am i the only guy who's watching this

  • Reply Cameron Perry July 24, 2016 at 5:56 am

    this person makes me sad cuz she looks like my ex 🙁

  • Reply The Chamalow Destroyer July 25, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    Now I feel bad for all of you girls (I know I am lost in the Internet)

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  • Reply Darren Vaught July 26, 2016 at 7:59 am

    how did i get here?

  • Reply ocm506 August 2, 2016 at 12:44 am

    There are onlh two genders

  • Reply Chantz not the rapper August 3, 2016 at 9:39 pm

    Now I'm traumatized

  • Reply Cambell Smith August 9, 2016 at 12:42 am

    penis in vagina sex?
    do you mean vaginal penitration?

  • Reply Robban August 9, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    or then your vagina is as small as your brain

  • Reply ChrisThePleb August 10, 2016 at 7:30 am

    Her teaching sex, would be me teaching you how to fly an F1…. I have no experience with piloting

  • Reply Ru Drisi August 13, 2016 at 3:30 am

    Allergy to semen? Would please cite.

  • Reply JustAMan August 15, 2016 at 8:09 pm

    Less sex with people you hardly know, less problems with your vagina.

  • Reply Unreal Universe August 16, 2016 at 9:52 am

    When you said allergies, I literally thought of being allergic to dicks.

  • Reply sandscujoh August 19, 2016 at 4:12 pm

    gay

  • Reply shaheen dalirian gonzalez August 23, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    i thought that she was lesbian.. i dont undertsand

  • Reply Lauryn Hendry August 24, 2016 at 1:33 am

    These comments kinda Prove why we need feminism

  • Reply C3P0-is-bae August 25, 2016 at 11:20 am

    >Had painful sex
    >watched this video thinking it might be one of the things talked about
    > accidentally was about to start my period so my cervix and vag werent happy
    >whoops

  • Reply Rachel -Reviews, ASMR and Life-LimeLight August 29, 2016 at 1:15 am

    loving your videos!!

  • Reply nashia whitehead September 3, 2016 at 10:02 pm

    you're scaring me😢😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • Reply Argumentative Piece of shit September 5, 2016 at 9:15 pm

    When is laci Green going to be banned from YouTube? Her content is sexual and not advertiser-friendly.

  • Reply elderago September 6, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    ahh this is why I am glad I am gay and male, of course I can relate to up the butt, plenty of times Ive told guys noo…

  • Reply Val Garrow September 7, 2016 at 10:27 pm

    Do you have any degree in vagina…………..???? That is a joke y'all

  • Reply Val Garrow September 7, 2016 at 10:30 pm

    If it hurts just do boob sex. It's like you squeeze the thing between it, you known?'n lmao

  • Reply Lisanne Lasure September 8, 2016 at 12:43 am

    Thank you for doing this video! My pain has completely ruined almost every sexual experience I've ever had.

  • Reply S A I N T September 8, 2016 at 1:54 am

    How do u know if u are allergic to semen without trying it o3o

  • Reply zoey250 September 8, 2016 at 3:01 am

    Don't forget vulvodynia! It's pain in the vulvar area that can also be caused by muscle problems. It's not in the vagina which I think is what differentiates it from vaginismus and also its pretty random and not from anxiety necessarily. I was finally diagnosed a couple weeks ago, I'm 24 and I've had it since I was 10.

  • Reply Le Pepe September 11, 2016 at 1:02 pm

    0:01 jumpscare..thank me later

  • Reply Matt P September 20, 2016 at 11:26 pm

    There should be a youtube channel dedicated to lecigreen's comment section

  • Reply Bergeron 798 September 29, 2016 at 8:24 am

    She called me babe

  • Reply nicenessstreak October 4, 2016 at 1:58 am

    So this YouTuber decided to make videos about well…… this, instead of making skits or comedy stuff or whatever. Why? Hey Laci do you have vaginal pain? Also, if you are one of the people whom actually gets their education from this girl…I feel very sad for you. Go to a library or research online smartly. Go ahead and reply to me if you like to defend this girl, just know that if you do….. I won't answer replies because I don't care about replying to people that talk about this girl Laci…So go crazy on replies.

  • Reply Kiriel Branson October 4, 2016 at 4:46 am

    You are obviously targeting the young. The major cause of pain during intercourse is menopause and estrogen loss.

  • Reply Jet Life October 4, 2016 at 10:23 am

    Just leave Youtube.

  • Reply Evolution1101 October 5, 2016 at 2:54 am

    0:31 Like Laci Green.

  • Reply Skrey JNR October 9, 2016 at 4:16 pm

    damn poor men who fucked you

  • Reply Matt Bell October 11, 2016 at 3:57 am

    Floss Fail 0:00

  • Reply Kara Hirsch October 14, 2016 at 4:38 am

    I have endometriosis and there nothing they can do sometimes sex really hurts

  • Reply Alicia Green October 15, 2016 at 1:53 am

    I have experienced pain and panic and immense frustration with this for as long as I can remember. Thank you for making this video. I have so many female friends I've told about it and they just seemed confused and said "Well, you just need to relax".
    Well, DUH. Lol. I know that.
    Literally it feels like the same reaction you have when someone comes close to your eyes with a needle or something. You don't choose to close them. They just close. You have to try to not have that reaction, and in this case, on top of that, the pain is excruciating. And when it's in the context of a relationship with someone you love and trust, it's maddening that your body is just not working with you even when you 150% want it.

  • Reply Smokey Julius Hazard October 15, 2016 at 10:03 pm

    loved your old videos laci. all the stories about the people from your school.
    you fucking nutcase haha

  • Reply Lilac October 21, 2016 at 2:32 am

    Thank you for talking about this. I've lived with vulvodynia since I was 14.

  • Reply AequitasVeritas October 23, 2016 at 6:04 am

    I'm sure you could take a fist in your vag

  • Reply Faith Mog October 29, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    Does she ever talk about anything besides sex

  • Reply yj yj November 4, 2016 at 10:24 am

    i want my partner to tell the difference of whether the sound i make is from pain or pleasure. i need to communicate it though. it's irritating he kept hurting me with misunderstanding the reason of sound. first time with new partner always is a bit hard to get fun. however, there's time when it just feels right from the first time.

  • Reply Phoenix Furbaby November 13, 2016 at 10:29 am

    Yep, deep penetration and crippling periods. I have endometriosis… Also, sometimes orgasm will cripple me with a throbbing/stabbing uterus for 2 hours afterward.

  • Reply Richard Dryfist November 22, 2016 at 10:22 pm

    guys love it when girl Wentz in pain

  • Reply Mia Beck December 1, 2016 at 2:47 am

    Why am I here I'm Asexual.. AYYYE WHERE MY ASEX SQUAD AT?

  • Reply Gren Moyo December 2, 2016 at 3:03 pm

    guarana? i mean you could stick that in there….its got caffeine, it'll be quite a stimulant……

  • Reply Dese Kraator December 6, 2016 at 12:28 am

    Pain the in vag?

  • Reply Hurricane Polk December 12, 2016 at 8:37 am

    The wort pain I could imagine is listening to lacigreen while banging her.

  • Reply Chippe_Da_Dank December 20, 2016 at 2:07 am

    Thanks for the vid!I realized again that Lace,there are two genders!I was kidding about the thanks

  • Reply Loai Hassan December 20, 2016 at 4:24 pm

    You could've spent your parent's money on something more useful

  • Reply Kieran N December 23, 2016 at 9:58 pm

    THE THUMBNAIL IS

    RAD(not)

  • Reply The Spin Jerks January 2, 2017 at 9:24 am

    Laci is a pain in the neck

  • Reply Paul Hesse January 2, 2017 at 2:34 pm

    Nice rack.

  • Reply Genius by Design February 2, 2017 at 11:05 pm

    BBC ?

  • Reply Coral February 2, 2017 at 11:06 pm

    Skyn condoms are my FAVE! 😍 xxx

  • Reply Philosipher r February 21, 2017 at 7:48 am

    Ur eyes are so cool

  • Reply Sophie Smith February 21, 2017 at 10:22 pm

    I bloody love your channel as you talk about helpful important things that others seem to feel to awkward to talk about, you help a lot of people, thank you 💗

  • Reply lynsays Passtime March 17, 2017 at 9:07 pm

    Thank you soooooo much Lacie this was so helpful xxxx

  • Reply Shay Gich March 21, 2017 at 7:56 pm

    im 12 iv never had sex but i know the first time you do it hurts cuz your cherry pops duh😏😏

  • Reply Aaron Wilkerson April 4, 2017 at 9:20 pm

    What are you 12? Skanky videos teaching kids to be pervs….

  • Reply tea time commenter April 11, 2017 at 2:30 am

    can you not post this on YouTube

    if you really need to know things about this go to ask Alice or something
    kids watch YouTube and this has no age rating

  • Reply Moon Man April 21, 2017 at 3:57 am

    I don't know why people hate this channel? I haven't had sex before, but I watch her videos to prepare myself for my first time.

  • Reply Jeremy Davis May 10, 2017 at 5:17 am

    lacigreen,
    I love you ❤

  • Reply Jonathan Waller May 17, 2017 at 6:21 am

    interesting

  • Reply Jeron Hill May 23, 2017 at 5:12 am

    @lacigreen burden of the big awesome person you are sis

  • Reply maypaki alam May 30, 2017 at 5:32 pm

    Why is painful intercourse more common among women than men. Here’s why:

    Once Adam and Eve commited the sin of tasting the fruit from the tree of life, Eve was punished, (for offering it to adam)

    and from then on, she experienced pain during intercourse and child birth. Painful sex is more common among women than men.

    God punished women with PAINFUL
    biological weaknesses. They are:

    1.) Having a hymen, which, if remained intact, can tear and hurt a woman during sex,
    2.) Vaginal dryness – if a woman is not aroused, sex can vaginally hurt her. IF a man is not
    aroused, its not genitally painful for hiim.
    3.) Menstrual cramps
    4.) vaginismus, vulvodynia, yeast infections
    5.) Painful childbirth

    As God’s punishment for Eve, God made women weak. Women got so weak that a man’s punishment is to work hard to provide for a

    woman. A man is merely a disposable source of income/resources for a woman. He is only useful for a woman if he has money.

    Now, most women are interested in men with high paying jobs to compensate for their own female weaknesses.

    Both genders are punished, but since Eve had sinned first, her (and all women’s) suffering is more biological.

  • Reply Eineko June 22, 2017 at 7:42 pm

    The thumbnail made me laugh out loud XD

  • Reply anthony santora June 25, 2017 at 12:16 pm

    Thank you

  • Reply Morgan Harris June 25, 2017 at 5:26 pm

    interstitial cystitis is another cause

  • Reply Longulous Dongulous June 28, 2017 at 11:01 pm

    Do you think god stays in heaven because , he too, lives in fear of what he's created

  • Reply Hannah Isabel July 3, 2017 at 11:20 pm

    can't relate

  • Reply james fry July 4, 2017 at 2:42 am

    all hail queen vag

  • Reply FrancesBaconandEggs July 13, 2017 at 6:37 pm

    I love the slightly pornographic stick figures 😂

  • Reply MellyNicky July 23, 2017 at 7:21 am

    very educational! great video

  • Reply Sem koot July 25, 2017 at 4:57 pm

    Why was this in a playlist for Paracord bracelets? xD

  • Reply KINGatLIFE October 9, 2017 at 8:52 pm

    Ermmm…. Hey. I'm a single white guy living in the UK. I'm a Virgin. 20 years old.

    Anyone wanna lose your virginity with me?

  • Reply maypaki alam November 1, 2017 at 1:14 pm

    Primary Vaginismus
    if you have it, then your body is not designed for sex. It is God's way of telling you to become a nun or just remain celibate to keep the population down. You have a NUN'S VAGINA. God truly works in strange ways. I am now an enlightened man.

  • Reply Carsyn the dreamer November 21, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    #lacitheVqueen

  • Reply Samantha Darling December 12, 2017 at 7:18 am

    Oh the burden of miss matched genitals lol

  • Reply Catherine Sardinha February 20, 2018 at 4:19 am

    Ew

  • Reply david wilson March 5, 2018 at 2:59 am

    WHAT FILTH!

  • Reply david wilson March 5, 2018 at 3:01 am

    PLEASE GET NEUTERED!

  • Reply Leigh Nadel March 30, 2018 at 6:21 pm

    You missed scar tissue from procedures like LEEP

  • Reply Bryan Melgar April 23, 2018 at 10:34 pm

    GIRLS DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS WOMAN DO NOT STAY AWAY FROM DICKS

  • Reply maypaki alam April 24, 2018 at 5:57 pm

    Mac Viking I used to doubt the existence of God. But after i discovered vaginismus, it strengthened my belief in God. Some higher power is manipulating women's vagina for population control. I am now an enlightened man. Haleluia!

  • Reply Tracey Orball July 4, 2018 at 3:04 am

    I bet she could fit 3 dicks in that jaw!

  • Reply withintheshyness October 15, 2018 at 12:33 am

    I have vaginismus so thanks for coving it!

  • Reply RealityBytes November 10, 2018 at 3:49 am

    I can’t believe you skipped over Pelvic Floor Dysfunction and vulvodynia.

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