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Calling my Mom to tell her I’m Trans 💙

August 16, 2019


There’s a rhythm and watch things taste For the lights don’t move and the colors don’t fade leaves you empty with nothing but dreams In a world gone shallow and a world gone mean (music stops) Good morning!
Looks like a wonderful day to come out to my mom! (music starts again) Sometimes there’s things a man cannot know The gears won’t turn and the leaves won’t grow I didn’t film this with the intention of putting it online I recorded the phone call with my mother because while there are thousands if not millions Of ‘coming out live to parent’ videos on YouTube, they’re almost always about sexuality or binary transgenders I’ve never seen someone come out as genderqueer or non-binary and explain that kind of physical transition or Identity to a parent if it went poorly I wanted to be able to go back and figure out What parts I fudged or relayed to my mom unclearly. You see explaining ‘in the middle’ genders or ‘out of the box’ genders Can sometimes be super challenging and confusing. Plus, I am still quite insecure about my non-binary-ness I have some serious shame and internalized ish in here because of that I was very worried about sobbing, rambling and severely Perplexing my mother – spoiler that didn’t happen – in fact the conversation went so fantastically that I feel comfortable sharing it with you Hopefully this can help some future NB babes. You’re not gonna hear my mom’s word-for-word replies though, I wanted to keep some parts of our chat private and sacred. They’re not for you They’re for me and her and that’s okay I realized that documenting and sharing every vulnerable part of our lives seems to be the thing to do these days But I’m here to tell you it is perfectly fine to keep some personal things personal. Editing Ash will include a few paraphrased subtitles here and there just for context, but that’s it, alright, Enjoy!… I cry a lot, so Sorry (Music starts again) I will stay with you tonight This doesn’t necessarily have an intention of living somewhere It’s very possible that this recording is just for me, and this doesn’t see the light of day for a hundred different reasons I’m gonna text, gonna text. I have a thing not gonna, not gonna talk much more about it, though, or I’ll work myself up Doing it. Just doing it. (Mom on phone) Hello Ash: Hii! Ooh What kind of scones are they that sounds awesome you made the walnut ones before or someone else did? You have made scones on more than one occasion? Oh? That’s so fancy. I have never made scones. I’ve only consumed them, and they’re delicious Oh, I’m sorry that must have been hard, yeah, that must have been hard. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Mm-hmm Mm-hmm that makes sense yeah ha, that’s weird um well It’s something that I’ve wanted to talk to you about for a while um um oh crap Um it’s really not a big deal, but um you know Sorry, you know how you’re a crier, and I’m a crier so crap. I thought it would at least get further than this oh That’s too bad, I thought I would get way further than that at least um Right it’s like as soon as soon as like any kind of first voice quiver happens It’s like all downhill from there so yeah, it’s something that I wanted to talk to you for a while about but um I don’t think it’s Scary, or I don’t think it’s that that big of a deal. I don’t think it really changes Anything and and um before I tell you it I just want to tell you that I’m telling you because I love you and because I want to have like a really close relationship and I don’t want anything to ever like go untalked about or Unasked about or avoided or anything because like one of us or both of us or whatever is Uncomfortable or scared or something because that’s just not the relationship that I want to have with my mom because I…I…I Yeah, um so, that’s why I’m telling you. No. I’m not doing drugs Did you ask me that to lighten the mood? You’re nice that was nice Um and then also before I tell you um I’m just going to tell you about like maybe two things that I’m a little bit worried about and the first one is I’m worried that I’ll tell you and You’ll try to like I don’t know talk me out of something. I think that would hurt me a little bit, and then the other one is I’m worried that I’ll tell you and You’ll think that it’s like silly or something. I think that would Oh you’re so good um I also want you to like ask any questions that you have um and Whatever, and and and I want you to like you know be honest with I don’t know any anything you might be wondering or any Any feeling that you might have So I don’t you want you to like, I don’t know I want you to like you know be honest about how you feel about Like me and stuff like that so I guess it kind of comes in two parts I’ll start with the first one um you know you’ve read my book So you know that like? Right too many times um so you know that the way that I see The way that a lot of people and the way that I see gender is that it exists You know like on a spectrum, and I’m like pretty sure that you know this But we’ve never actually like super talked about it like head-on I think by reading my book and like just if you watch anything I do online and stuff you are kind of aware that I Don’t exist like exist all the way on one end of the spectrum I either like feel in the middle or I kind of move around a little bit or something like that and then a word That you could use to like describe that and a word that I’ve been using to describe that Kind of as of late is the word trans so I would say that I’m trans so that would be like the first part How do you feel about that? Okay, yeah, that’s a real That’s a really good or that’s like a normal thing to think and that’s not exactly how I feel so it can also be like somebody who was a girl and now feels like in the middle or or Because I definitely don’t feel like a guy so it so it it would be just anything where your gender doesn’t Match What yeah no no questions are stupid? Oh, um cuz that just doesn’t feel right to me like If somebody were to say like they’re a guy, I would be like no um It’s kind of like if somebody said you were a guy you would just know like oh, that’s not right But it kind of feels the same way with like if somebody were to look at me and be like you are Exclusively a girl I would have the exact same feeling I’d be like oh no that’s not right Right no yeah, no, I think that’s like how a lot of that. I think that’s like a total yeah I think that makes a lot of sense. I think the difference is like it goes beyond clothing um It’s definitely not just clothes, and it’s definitely not just like gender roles. It’s also like just an internal Sense it’s kind of hard to explain which I think is why it can be so confusing well Maybe that well first of all how are you doing? Okay good cool. Maybe the second part will kind of explain It maybe a little bit more so the second thing and probably the thing I’m just like a little bit more nervous to tell you Is that um You got it. Yeah, you know Yeah, but I think I want to go like all the way Right because it doesn’t feel right to me to Have that it would be like if you woke up with something That you didn’t have before yeah, and then oh I’m not upset. I’m not I’m not I’m not I’m not upset at like your question or anything I Just know, it’s different, so I’m so like sensitive about Like being yeah, but no I think that’s a totally normal like none of your questions are Bad or…or they’re they don’t know your questions don’t upset me just like my own insecurities. Grace is totally supportive, and she totally gets it and Grace is like perfect We’re Going to like with Our surgeon talk through like how pregnancy Will affect any kind of like surgery and also like how like the best strategies for like keeping a biological kiddo super healthy if that’s the route we want to take Okay, cool uh-huh Sure uh-huh No, yeah, no, uh yeah. I said that’s kind of how I feel, but I know not everybody can feel that way I think that we all just proj… I think we’d like project our own insecurities on the people that we care most about You know like like I knew like I I knew that you in my brain I ran this conversation 100 times and Right in like 99 out of Oh Yeah I know and I didn’t wanna, I didn’t wanna, I wanted us to like actually talk about it rather than like I don’t know Think it’s harder sometimes to tell people that you actually care about you know Yeah, no definitely. well And that’s another reason that I wanted to talk to you because it can take Some recovery so in my brain since I love you so much. I was hoping that uh Once I go through it if you have time off work You’d fly up and help me recover because it takes a little Just like it like a few days of just having like a person by your side Okay, that’s good to know yeah No, that’s fine That’s okay, this is that’s fine Right that makes sense That’s funny. If that’s your biggest objection, then I think that this is I don’t think anybody I don’t think anybody would be like controversial or different like on purpose Like I know how many times I wished I didn’t feel that way because I think it’s so I don’t know It’s just so Strangely unique, so I like, like I wish I just didn’t but I can’t like I just I couldn’t I couldn’t anymore so Yeah, I just don’t think anybody would do that like I don’t know on purpose you know It’s just how they are I think people sometimes get hung up on stuff like this too because then they’re like well What are the chances that you’re gay and this and this and it’s like I don’t know brah It’s just how it is, but I agree. It is a pretty big coincidence But sometimes they can’t get past that All right, well. I’ll let you go mom, but I love you so much, and thank you for like literally I don’t know saying exactly the most perfect things and being a good mom and being accepting and and everything I love you too Okay I will I will I will I will I will Gotcha, yes, good to know okay, all right. Okay. Love you. Bye mom I recorded though for 54 minutes, so there is no way that Anywhere close to most of it is going online. I feel like I want to go for like a celebratory dinner Because I’m happy it feels like a weight off my chest no pun intended (Music) There is a truth and it’s on our side Also, if any of you are curious regarding the timeline of when this happened it occurred right before I came out to the Internet But it took a while for me to post Because I wanted to make sure this video is perfect and I wanted to run it by my mom and get permission to post it Cuz you can’t just record people and post them without asking Just so you know you got to make sure they’re ok with it And you got to make sure they’re comfy with everything you’re putting out there if they’re involved and sometimes I feel like we forget that. A lot of youtubers just hide cameras around the house perform non-consentual pranks err Drama story times that involve other people without any regard for if those people are okay with that So I’m trying to model the opposite of that behavior Considering others. This is a reminder to do that (Music) Dawn is coming, open your eyes Yay, thank you so much for watching if you want to see the next part of my trans journey be sure to hit that notifications Bell and you can watch me become me some more Okay, bye Look into the Sun as a new day’s rise

100 Comments

  • Reply Ash Hardell February 14, 2018 at 9:33 pm

    Boop, description says it all, so I'll just say it again – Explaining a non binary identity to a parent can be a scary and tricky task. People as me all the time for advice on the matter, but until recently I didn't even know how to go about this myself! Just a couple months ago I called my mom to tell her I'm trans. Today I have the privilege of sharing that phone call with you 💙

    Happy Valentines Day if you're into that! 🙂

  • Reply XENOR' ́ July 31, 2019 at 9:40 pm

    It's cool and we are all proud of you, but just one question, why I don't do that without camera? (I don't judge you)

  • Reply elenAa July 31, 2019 at 10:11 pm

    Hey dont cry Its ok
    U are cute

  • Reply audrey pearl August 1, 2019 at 3:00 am

    I'm crying 😭😭

  • Reply Camryn Power August 1, 2019 at 5:18 am

    Me: mum im bi
    Mom: oh
    Why is this so funny

  • Reply Marcos Jimenez August 1, 2019 at 6:33 am

    I have a doubt. In the event of a natural or man caused disaster that wiped out 99% of the human population and all we had left are a few men and women and some non binary people. What role would they take? Would they take on the role of a man and be a hunter and warrior or woman and be a gathered and bear children to ensure to continuation of our species. I just have a hard time understanding how these people have contributed to the development of society as we now know it. It’s always been men shaping society and women right behind supporting them. Never heard of an individual that considered themselves non binary as a historic figure

  • Reply æýïňsé August 1, 2019 at 12:49 pm

    OH GOD YOU ARE SO CUTEEEEE ❤❤❤

  • Reply PATD Fanatic In Gachalife August 1, 2019 at 9:02 pm

    Im Pansexual. But. I can't. Come. Out. To. My. Mom. She says "At your age why not just be lesbian or straight?" But I find attraction to both genders no matter what gender and by personality.

  • Reply Paroxysmic August 1, 2019 at 10:15 pm

    Me: Mum I'm…

    Mum: What?

    Me: I'm coming out to tell you that I'm

    Mum: Gay?

    Me: No, I'm straight mum.

    Mum: Then what?

    Me: I'm a transphobic and although I may not agree with other people's decisions in life I will continue to support them no matter how ridiculous their life decisions may be, I hope that people will respect my opinion and not be so butthurt about it.

    Mum: Why are you such an honest boy?

  • Reply Kekserin 5 August 2, 2019 at 12:01 am

    I'm so confused if i'm gay or not

  • Reply Riverdale Edits August 2, 2019 at 1:27 am

    “Sorry” she melts my heart ❤️

  • Reply Whale Cat August 2, 2019 at 1:32 am

    There is something about your voice makes me so happy

  • Reply Riverdale Edits August 2, 2019 at 1:33 am

    So I meet this girl and I’m a girl that is bi so I decided to come out to my bestfriend (my sister)
    Me: is Shane dawnson bi or ?
    Her: yes he’s bi
    Me: well I guess I’m like him then
    Her: oh cool
    Me: do you know what I mean
    Her: yes that your bi
    Me: how’s you know?
    Her: for starters you meet that girl
    Me: shook
    There’s no way she could have known I was so confused 😂😂

  • Reply Angie and Kass UNKNOWN August 2, 2019 at 3:13 am

    I came out to my mom about being Bisexual in the middle of June (Pride Month! lol)
    Me: I'm Bisexual
    Mom: Are you sure or is this just a theory
    Me: No I like a girl and a guy
    Mom: Okay that is fine sweetheart. This means you can't get pregnant if you date a girl.
    Me: Mom!
    Mom: 'laughing'

    Tuesday July 29
    Me: Hey mom how do you think Panda (my dad) would react if I told him I was Bi
    Mom: Idk and how do you know it is not just a phase or something?
    Me: 'GETS SO OFFENDED' (its fine but it got me mad for a sec)
    Mom: You see I am attracted to girls but Im not Bi
    Me: That is literally what Bisexual is Mom!!
    Mom: Whatever I can't deal with this right now I have got to get to work.

    So I guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree LOL

  • Reply Laur TRIES To Draw August 2, 2019 at 5:15 am

    I just came out to my mom about being a guy via a song called Transgender that I emailed a link to her. I regret my life choices.

  • Reply Emma Rucshner August 2, 2019 at 6:33 pm

    I am so proud of them for doing this, but all I can think about is how good that egg looked in the beginning 🤣

  • Reply Ally B August 2, 2019 at 9:23 pm

    Me: Mom.. I’m gay
    Mom: Oh sweety I know, why do you think I call you GAYtor? (my nickname is gator) I’ve known you been a lil lesbian since you were 5 and you’d only let me shop in the boy section for clothes for you.😂
    Me: oh… okay then

  • Reply RYN LZR August 3, 2019 at 12:49 am

    Me: I'm trans
    Mom: nice
    Me: your not mad or anything
    Mom: I've know for like 6 years dear
    Me: but I've only known for 2
    Mom: you talk in your sleep
    Me: I wha-
    Mom: who's kiely

  • Reply RYN LZR August 3, 2019 at 12:51 am

    What sexuality is it if you like to be called a boy but your born a girl but still like guys

    Please tell me my best friend says in transgay

  • Reply cat girl awesome August 3, 2019 at 3:00 am

    ty u helped me so much

  • Reply Ashley Rhy August 3, 2019 at 3:05 am

    Congrats! I'm glad that went so well. 🤗

  • Reply Izuku Midorya August 3, 2019 at 4:36 am

    Me: I’m STRAIGHT
    My friends and boyfriend: well that’s just bxllshxt

  • Reply renata maza August 3, 2019 at 6:15 am

    I just need to say this whole thing is so sweet. I just wish my coming out can be like this!! 💕 this is amazing and it made me cry 😭🥰 Keep being you

  • Reply Sam Does Things August 3, 2019 at 2:10 pm

    I can 1 up that though

  • Reply •BES TI'S• August 4, 2019 at 1:43 am

    Me: Mom, I am bi
    Mom: No, it's just a phase
    Me: Well, I am sure it's not
    Mom: don't be stupid, you will grow out of it

    My mom used to be a psychologist, who grew up in a homofobic county (We are from Russia). I don't blame her, she is not even homofobic. She is a good mom and I love her, but it just kinda hurts me.

  • Reply No I August 4, 2019 at 4:14 am

    Hey people of comment section. I'm bi and one day want to come out to my parents but my family being Mormon is what scares me. Now one time my brother asked "What if one of your children were gay?" And my mom said "I would still love them but " I forgot the last part. I'm not ready to come out yet to her but when it's time it's time.

  • Reply Kendra Bishop August 4, 2019 at 5:15 am

    I watched this 1 year ago when I was straight I’m bi now…🖤

  • Reply Penelope Castro August 4, 2019 at 5:39 am

    Me: I’m nonbinary
    Mom: that’s fine
    Hours later
    Mom: what makes a girl
    Me: idk I’m not a girl
    Mom: how can u not identify as something if u don’t know what it is

    WTF

  • Reply Sandesh Bandekar August 4, 2019 at 10:22 am

    World is becoming funny… LOL

  • Reply Beėtłe Jûice August 4, 2019 at 10:29 am

    Me: I’m pan
    Mom:……
    Me:talking to a doll

  • Reply Hotaru August 4, 2019 at 10:47 am

    I feel like i need to say this your adorable and everyone loves ya ❤️❤️

  • Reply Nicole Jacques August 4, 2019 at 11:23 am

    As a parent, it was lovely to watch this and see what kind of impact a mom's reaction can have on their child. My kids are still quite young (9 and 10), but if they ever come to me and tell me anything like this, I hope I have the same warm, loving reaction as your mom. What a lucky kiddo you are to have her (and vice versa)! Thank you for sharing!

  • Reply The Safe Corner August 4, 2019 at 4:33 pm

    Awwwweee! give me a hug! ❤️❤️
    This is so cute xx omg
    I cried

    I'm not coming out to my mum until I have a place to go if she throws me out.
    I'm pan btw

  • Reply Angry Muffin August 4, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    Your mom is so supportive and understanding, you're really lucky to have grown up with her. I definitely see her personality in you while you two conversate. I'm so glad you two can be goofy and light hearted. I'm glad that people are changing and becoming more accepting of change. <333

  • Reply Ace and Laken August 5, 2019 at 1:30 am

    Me: Hey, dad….
    Dad:……..huh
    Me: im transgender
    Dad: you wanna be a boy?
    Me:……..yeeeeeessss?
    Dad: i did too son.

  • Reply Lᴜɴᴀʀ sᴜx ᴀᴛ ᴀɴɪᴍᴀᴛɪᴏɴ August 5, 2019 at 2:19 am

    Can i just say, UR SO CUTE!!! ^w^

  • Reply Kenzie Grace August 5, 2019 at 5:12 am

    Me: Dontcrydontcrydontcrydontcryyyy
    DANG ITTTT WHO CUT THOSE DANGG ONIONS

  • Reply Alex.io August 5, 2019 at 7:19 am

    Me: Mom i want to show you a Musically.

    Mom: Ok

    Also Mom: sees username

    Username: annathegayturtle

    Me: imma kms now.

    Im trans now… I came out today by putting a note saying im tran in my moms cigarettes

  • Reply Alex.io August 5, 2019 at 7:21 am

    Me as a mom

    My child: Mom… Im straight

    Me: Ya sure???

    My child: Yeah…

    Me: Ummm… Ok… Ill deal with it

  • Reply ItzKeenyaH :3 August 5, 2019 at 11:23 am

    So many people r bi-

  • Reply Chlyrazel Gacha Cookie August 5, 2019 at 5:27 pm

    Me: actaully being bi

    Me: finally coming out to my mom

    mom:pshhh no youre noott!

    me:….

    mom: ITS THE PHONE THATS CONFUSING YOUUU! THAT DARN BLUE LIGHT!

  • Reply Jessika Lampp August 5, 2019 at 8:04 pm

    I would say sitting here and watching this, out of all the coming out videos I’ve watched this is most definitely the most inspiring. Not only because of how your mom and you acted towards each other or how it all went down, but it was mostly the words you said that were the most incredible parts about this.

    I hope I make sense and I just wanted to say that I totally love you and your videos you’re TRULY an inspiration to me.
    Lmao I’m like so late to this 😂

  • Reply Anime Review August 5, 2019 at 8:30 pm

    This was so sweet and wholesome I wish my coming out experience was more like this

  • Reply Fandom Finder August 5, 2019 at 10:10 pm

    Youve inspired me to come out as a gender blind Pansexual to my mom.

    I'll tell you guys how it goes.

  • Reply Miranda Xo August 6, 2019 at 1:33 am

    This made me emotional 😢… This is how my relationship with my mom is ❤❤❤❤ lots of love XoXo

  • Reply Daysia Blakeman August 6, 2019 at 1:55 am

    I am non binary and still have not come out to my mom. THIS VIDEO WILL CERTANLY HELP ME EXPLAIN

  • Reply Robizarrnerd 243 August 6, 2019 at 2:19 am

    😭❤️

  • Reply woodrowpike August 6, 2019 at 2:34 am

    How other people come out.
    Them:Mom,dad…Im trans.
    How I come out.
    Me:*runs out room with trans flags in hands and trans sunglasses on*YOU CAN'T STOP ME
    Mom:get out.

  • Reply Ryleigh Bias August 6, 2019 at 3:01 am

    "No! I'm not doing drugs!"

  • Reply Alannah Mc Elvaney August 6, 2019 at 4:43 am

    Me:mom I'm bi
    My mum: IM GONNA HAVE TO PUT YOU IN THAT DAMN RICE AGAIN 🍚

  • Reply Alannah Mc Elvaney August 6, 2019 at 4:47 am

    mum talking to dad
    Mum: honey….
    the dad about to pick up the pan
    Dad:Ye?
    Mum:Peters Pan
    dad drops pan
    Dad:WELL IM SORRY I DIDNT KNOW OUR SON HAS HIS OWN PERSONALISED PAN NOW WHY CANT I GET ONE HUH
    mum:cause u married me…….
    Dad:WHATS THAT GOT TO DO WITH ME GETTING MY OWN PAN
    Mum:……….
    Dad:…………

  • Reply C.o.R August 6, 2019 at 5:07 pm

    Ash inner voice: ok this is an important Talk, we must be prepared
    Actual Ash: Scones

  • Reply Grass Lancaster August 6, 2019 at 10:11 pm

    My mom didn’t believe me
    When I said I was lesbian

  • Reply Michaela Adam August 7, 2019 at 6:36 am

    Me:mom I'm gay
    Mom: I never had a son

  • Reply Potato Slinger August 7, 2019 at 8:49 am

    Congrats

  • Reply Алина Фроленкова August 7, 2019 at 12:28 pm

    You are so brave. I was very anxious when I told my parents about my bisexuality. But, it’s okey

  • Reply Evelyn leclair August 7, 2019 at 1:48 pm

    Aww we love u so much 🖤💙🖤💙🖤💙🖤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • Reply kenni August 7, 2019 at 5:07 pm

    i’m completely straight, but my parents are lowkey kinda of homophobic so if i were into the opposite sex that would be a huge issue

  • Reply Kaisha Cthulu August 7, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    Yaaass :3

  • Reply I’m Coltonfreeman August 7, 2019 at 7:31 pm

    There are only 2 genders and ur born a boy or a girl u can’t change 😜😘😙🇺🇸💖

  • Reply Bring Me The Memes August 7, 2019 at 10:10 pm

    I'm straight, but I like watching this things,my brother came out to me after I told him the things my other two brothers were saying of him behind his back. Like "he's always playing video games, he must be *weird*. Needless to say I am mad at my siblings, and fully support my brother, I am encouraging him to be himself one step at a time

  • Reply pop pop August 7, 2019 at 11:02 pm

    Why is she crying?

  • Reply Trinity Dunn August 8, 2019 at 12:27 am

    This maybe strange but help me plz I am trans but it is harder to come out than u think

  • Reply Òw Ó August 8, 2019 at 12:56 am

    I am non binary and I am horrified to come out to my parents so this helped me a lot thank you

  • Reply HeresTheTea August 8, 2019 at 3:37 am

    Off topic
    When I told my mom I had a bf she just laughed her head off
    She didn't believed me at first
    I was hurt °,-,°

  • Reply Kat Bloom August 8, 2019 at 4:13 am

    I don't even have to tell my parents they just know

  • Reply Dani Black August 8, 2019 at 4:42 am

    My tears: Am I a joke to you?

  • Reply taesthetic baby August 8, 2019 at 5:01 am

    "mhm mHm MHm MHM"

  • Reply Angels life August 8, 2019 at 1:23 pm

    This made me cry I'm happy she still loves u no matter what ❤️

  • Reply Melee Kirby 2004 August 8, 2019 at 9:41 pm

    We love that confidence go sis 👏😀🏳️‍🌈

  • Reply M C August 9, 2019 at 1:35 am

    I stumbled on somehing awkward and like, like, like annoying.

  • Reply AnnsLeblancLover 20 August 9, 2019 at 6:09 am

    Telling my mum –
    Me: I’m bi
    Mum:ok.What do you want a medal?
    Me:well that was easier than I thought walks away

    Telling my dad-
    Me:
    Dad:
    Me:
    Dad:
    Me:
    ((Oh wait, I’m to scared…any advice???!!!))

  • Reply We’re Fine, Thanks, Bye August 9, 2019 at 12:35 pm

    They’re so cute.

  • Reply Lil Chichen Nugget August 9, 2019 at 10:58 pm

    I feel like I’m non binary, as in o don’t fit into either categories but I also fit into both, and I haven’t told my mum yet😅…..I don’t think I could😂😅

  • Reply Green Chicken August 10, 2019 at 11:32 am

    Me: mom, i'm bi
    Mom: IT'S BECAUSE YOU SHIP GAY COUPLES
    (She actually said that LOL)

  • Reply onellü August 10, 2019 at 6:07 pm

    me: MOM IM BI…
    MOM: YOU CANT,IN OUR FAMILY NONE OF US ARE GAY,BLAH,BLAH…YOU ARE BORN TO BE A BOY NOT A GIRL IF YOU ARE,THEN GO OUT OF THIS HOME AND TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF ALONE…
    no one in this fucking family understand me🙄(except my cousin)….and i doesn't have friend lol… ):

  • Reply Mr. Guy August 10, 2019 at 8:52 pm

    She sounds like Erika Griffin

  • Reply misa amane August 10, 2019 at 11:57 pm

    No I'm not crying … my are sweating

  • Reply gachakittycat 5107 August 11, 2019 at 7:50 am

    Well done for telling her!

  • Reply Candy deadmeme August 11, 2019 at 9:58 am

    Heard gunshots outside while I was watching this, reminded me how weak these white kids are.

  • Reply Kateřina Grohová August 11, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    Me: mum, Im lesbian
    Mum: no, you are not continues doing something on PC

    My coming out

  • Reply TMT 50 August 11, 2019 at 2:24 pm

    There are thousands of humans starving on this planet earth, and we have an individual human crying/stressing over their gender… smh, what has this world come to.

  • Reply Bee G August 11, 2019 at 10:41 pm

    Why is every one commenting me: you: mom: we: like wtf

  • Reply Chris B August 12, 2019 at 4:40 pm

    Why is there a lunch table at my school, where there are only non binary kiddos, there are plenty of lgbtq+ people in my school some are dispursed throughout the school, and then there is that is that one table. Straight kiddos who are not even questioning there sexuality go to that table and form a relationship with the people that made up that table previously. All the sudden they become lgbtq+ almost like they feel in order to continue to form a relationship with those kids attending that lunch table they must change there sexuality, or they feel that they will be loved by that community for changing there sexuality…

    You are loved by plenty of people and you do not have to change your sexuality to feel that love and compassion. All you need to do is go find those people that love you for who you are deep down inside, yes it is hard but since the dawn of time, if you wanted somthing you would have to work for it, in this case love and compassion.

  • Reply Colton Goff456 August 13, 2019 at 6:27 am

    I’m trans too!

  • Reply Mystical Sticks August 13, 2019 at 8:10 pm

    This is the most pure thing

  • Reply Jo Green August 13, 2019 at 8:31 pm

    you are so brave to be you <3

  • Reply kiko paws August 13, 2019 at 11:33 pm

    Aww u blush so much

  • Reply Kayley Seanna August 14, 2019 at 2:59 am

    Sorry if this offends anyone, I’m trans too (:

    Me: Mum, I’m hungry.

    Mum: That damn phone.

    Me: Mum, I’m bored.

    Mum: That damn phone.

    Me: Mum, I’m trans.

    Mum: That- wait what?!

    Me: That damn phone! 😬

  • Reply Alaska merda August 14, 2019 at 11:05 am

    i'm crying rly bad

  • Reply Henny Steel August 14, 2019 at 3:39 pm

    Help me understand this please
    How do you not FEEL like a guy/girl when you are male/female ?
    Is trans a made up thing?
    Is there any scientific relevance to this behavior?

  • Reply Kaeldra Caton August 14, 2019 at 4:57 pm

    i came out to my mom last night as non-binary 😭💕

  • Reply gay August 14, 2019 at 8:46 pm

    coming out to my christian family:

    Me: Mom and dad did you know that i like both girls and boys
    Mom: * Laughs nervously * Okay i'm glad that you are loved!
    Dad: It doesn't matter what gender and skin they are as long as they are christian.
    My cousin: Oh, i'm glad that you found your true self
    My older sister: Idc if someone are rude to you i'll beat they up (My sister is an aries)
    My second older sister: That's gay
    My brother: Umm… so…. ok.
    My friends: WE STAN LGBTQ
    My crush: He doesn't know.

  • Reply Juuls Poelman August 14, 2019 at 10:20 pm

    so pure ! love it

  • Reply GachaSideny Koffee August 15, 2019 at 3:39 am

    I thought he just looked like a boy with a girl face

  • Reply Azzar Boon August 15, 2019 at 1:34 pm

    TFOEEEEE WHAT IS DIS

  • Reply Everest_Productions August 15, 2019 at 3:37 pm

    Hey i saw some boogies but it's okay :3

    Have an amazing life my dudete (boy+girl=dudete) smiles and hugs to you!

  • Reply dimond jellyjem August 16, 2019 at 12:27 am

    SOOOOO mmim straight but I'm so proud of you ash💙

  • Reply lauren _wolfie August 16, 2019 at 4:54 am

    I SUPPORT YOU!!!🏳🌈❤

  • Reply Jack Redding August 16, 2019 at 5:28 am

    GO FOR COMING OUT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    :}

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