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A Viral Bad Date Gets a Second Shot || STEVE HARVEY

December 16, 2019

(audience applauding) – Alright, welcome back everybody. When my next guest
volunteered to participate in a blind speed dating with 10 guys she had no idea how wrong
and how viral it would go. Take a look at this. From Jubilee Media. – Yo.
– Oh, you’re cute. (laughing) – Nice to meet you.
– Hi. – Nice to meet you, how are you? – I’m good, how are you?
– I’m doing well, I’m doing well. – I didn’t really envision
you looking like anything, but I’m really happy you’re cute. – Thank you, I appreciate that. (laughing) Thank you.
– And yeah, I hope this kinda goes somewhere I guess. – Well, I gotta girl. – Do you, what? (laughing) What? Dang, I’m…
– That was really good, you’re awesome though. – Did this just happen? (audience applauding) – Everybody please welcome Alexa. (audience applauding) – I’m so happy to be here. I’m so excited.
– I’m glad you’re here. Set this up for us, how did it happen? – I was watching one of my
favorite social media influencers and I noticed that they were doing like a casting call almost
for their social experiment. So I looked in their description and I found the link to a
document that I just filled out, and they called me up and they said, “hey, do you wanna be
a part of our video?” And I said, “sure,” and we
went through the whole process, and I found out he had a girl. – So, I mean what went through your mind when he said he wasn’t single? – At first I was disappointed,
I was shocked of course. The producers were
shocked, everybody on set was just like horrified almost
because it’s a dating show, obviously you don’t want somebody to be taken in a dating show. But I found out about it, and I was like, okay, cool, awesome, great, wonderful. – Well I saved you a lot of problems – Yeah.
– ‘Cause you found out at the beginning instead of – Yeah, I did.
– Half way through it, right. (laughing) Well, what was the response to the video? What’s that been like for you? – Oh my goodness, my social media, everything has been psychotic. Everywhere from Twitter,
where it got posted, and where it went the most viral, it’s gotten I think 12 million views. I’ve gotten thousands of followers on every social media
platform you can think of, and of course, hundreds
and hundreds of DMs from boys saying that
they don’t have a girl. (laughing) – After this story broke, everybody, I felt it was my
responsibility to as the CLO, Chief Love Officer, to
introduce you to some real guys, face to face, who I vetted. I know they’re all single,
I know where they all work, (audience applauding) I know what they all do for a living, and these are the kind of guys I think maybe you should meet. Okay, so you ready? – Yeah, of course.
– Alright so guys come on out. (upbeat music) (audience clapping and cheering) Alright fellas, tell us a little
something about yourselves. – My name is Sebastian,
I am student athlete, and I’m from Los Angeles. And I’ve been single for a while, and I think it’s time to be serious. (audience clapping) (audience yelling) – My name is Charlie, I am
from the beautiful state of New Hampshire, I’m a
writer, I am 20 years old, and I’m heavily into the arts. And let’s see where things go, alright? (audience applauding) – How you doing? I’m Quincy, I’m 22, I study
politics and economics. I come from the cold,
cold state of Minnesota, and I have never been in a relationship. So I’ve been on a couple
dates here and there, nothing’s ever really stuck,
(Alexa laughing) but I’m trying to explore some new things. (audience applauding) (laughing) – Well see, he threw me when he said, “I’ve never been in a relationship.” And I went (screeching), you know, ’cause I didn’t
know what the hell it was. And then I got to remember he’s 20. 20, probably ain’t been
in a real relationship. That’s probably what you
meant by that, you know. – Yeah.
(laughing) I’m sorry. – Own it. – I’ve never been in a
relationship, and it’s okay. – That’s good.
– That is cool. Here’s the best way to say that, Quincy. – Yeah.
– I’ve never found the right one that has produced anything of value and longevity. If you say that, you
understand what I’m saying. (audience cheering) Quincy! – Alright.
– You cute, you on point. Now they going, okay. (laughing) It’s just conversation. So when we come back everybody, Alexa’s gonna do another
round of speed dating. I got a feeling this is
gonna go a lot better the second time around. We got three great guys over here for you. Find out right after the break. In your hand I’ve given
you a list of questions. These are 14 questions
that I wrote and designed for women to ask men on the first date ’cause it helps you out. A lot of women struggle with
how far, what should I ask. I done figured all that out. I wrote 14 questions
– All right here. – That will tell you really,
really some great things about the guy that you need to know. So these are the questions. You can pick any of
those, you can ask any one of the gentlemen, I got
three great guys here. (audience applauding) You ready to get started?
– Yeah. – [Steve] To confirm, you’re all single? – Mm-hmm.
– Yes. – Yeah. – Now, you ready? – Yeah.
– Any of those questions that you like. – Charlie,
– Yeah. – Since you’re not in school, what is your dream, and where are you at achieving that dream? – I’m a writer, so I would
love to put my stories out and make something of them, but my dream is just to live
the best life I can live. Just be spontaneous, just
see what life hands me and just take it and go with it. – Okay, alright, next question. (audience applauding) – Quincy, what is your biggest strength, and your biggest weakness? – I think that my biggest
strength is my biggest weakness, in that I have a lot of ideas and goals, and like things that I’m
interested in and wanna do, but I spread myself too thin, and I’m terrible at scheduling. And so, if I had 40 hours
in a day I’d be straight. (laughing) – Me too, me too. (audience applauding) – [Steve] Okay, get it. (laughing) – Sebastian, what is the
biggest lesson you learned from your parent’s relationship? – I’ve learned that honest
is key in a relationship, without that, there is nothing. It’s really loyalty and just being honest, and explain to you how you
truly feel about one another, and just keeping it real, ya know. (audience applauding) – That’s a good answer.
– Mm-hmm. – That’s a good answer.
– Alright, one more question. – Oh gosh, one more.
– For the guys. – I’ll ask all of your this. What is one thing you won’t
tolerate in a relationship? – I think for me, it’s closed-mindedness, and an unwillingness to try new things. (audience applauding)
– I like that. – Quincy, let me ask you a question. – [Alexa] Oh no. – You sure you ain’t 40? (laughing) – I got my ID if you wanna… – I’m a damn sure look
it, that’s for damn sure. (laughing) What’s the one thing you won’t tolerate in a relationship, Charlie? – I like the fact that people
are open and vulnerable in a relationship, so I think
not holding anything back because that just builds up inside of you. And just letting whatever feeling you have coming out with it to your partner. That’s definitely something I value in a relationship right there. (audience applauding) – What about you, Sebastian? – I would have to say just dishonesty. – Yeah, okay.
– You don’t wanna be in a relationship with someone
that’s dishonest to you, and always lying to you behind your back because that just causes more problems. It creates a little problems to chaos, and it just doesn’t work. (audience applauding) (laughing) – Alright, it’s time to pick. But now this is interesting
because this is the age where you just wanna go out
and see if you can enjoy a person’s company, that’s all this is. You’re just trying to formulate
some great relationships along the way, and if one
of them sticks romantically then you got something. But right now these are all young people. He’s out here pursuing it. He’s got himself dialed
into a lot of things. Let me tell you one thing though. See, what would help
you with the broadness and the spectrum that you’re looking at, is focus on something that
tied directly to your gift. ‘Cause I know where you at,
I was the exact way, man. I was spread out like that,
and you’re in college, your ticket door is clearly to me, you gotta play ball so you
can get the thing paid for. And that’s real. Some good young guys up
here, really, really are. (audience applauding) So Alexa, which one of these gentlemen do you wanna just go and see
if can have a nice time with? Just enjoy your day.
– Oh gosh. – Yeah, it’s tough, I know.
– It really is. – Audience, who do you
think she should pick? (audience yelling) That lady said, “I don’t know, just pick.” – Oh yeah, that’s my mom. Hey, mom. – Mom, mom you said you don’t know. Terrell, just show her that card. I wrote a name on that
card, let her see it. And I’m gonna see, tell me
is that who you thinking? – Probably, I don’t know. – Yeah, just let her see
the name on that card. That’s not who you picked? Wow, okay cool. Who’s it gonna be, Alexa? (dramatic music) – Okay, for the record
I would go on a date with all of you, so no
hard feelings, I promise. – And as your daddy,
I wouldn’t allow that. (laughing) (audience applauding) – I think I’m gonna have to go with Sebastian. (audience cheering and applauding) – [Alexa’s Mom] You
were right, I was wrong. – I knew it. – Mom, I thought you knew me? – I thought I did too, apparently not. (laughing) – No, see but I watch the
man, and I watch his eyes. I know the man who’s trying
to make the connection. It doesn’t matter what she says or think. I follow the hunter. I know the hunter that’s
trying to capture. (audience applauding) That’s how I knew. And so he was trying harder. Come on over and meet her, Sebastian. (audience cheering and clapping) Keep us posted on how it goes. We’ll be right back, everybody. (upbeat music)


  • Reply Laurie Bard September 13, 2019 at 5:02 am

    Same guy I would have chosen. Great job Steve!!

  • Reply Shanna Xo September 13, 2019 at 2:47 pm

    I’m mad Quincy wasn’t chosen, they woulda been cute together 🙁 Sebastian seems so boring

  • Reply Nel Nieves September 13, 2019 at 7:07 pm

    Yessss… I was saying "If she doesn't choose Sabastian, she's an idiot who doesn't know what she wants."… My reasoning is because of his answers and nothing else… Quincy is a great guy but his answers weren't as good as Sebastian… I'm sure Quincy will do just fine!

  • Reply UNITED MONEY September 14, 2019 at 4:45 am

    Quincy is reasonable, responsible, and dependable.

  • Reply DucklingGaming September 14, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    Let me have Charlie ?

  • Reply Abdul Raqib Habibi September 15, 2019 at 10:40 pm

    Guys it's about being on the same level and they are both on the same level because the other two were not in the same level as her

  • Reply Ryan Zad September 18, 2019 at 2:35 pm

    Maybe he wasn't single but wanted to friend zone her

  • Reply Marlys Schlepp September 19, 2019 at 9:34 am

    Steve… I love ya but you gotta shave!!! Fr!!! Stay blessed… ❤️❤️

  • Reply eCharleen September 20, 2019 at 1:24 am

    Love her earrings.

  • Reply sugarhoney September 21, 2019 at 7:08 am

    Small boys looking for dates. Mtchew

  • Reply jwm4ever September 25, 2019 at 6:19 pm

    Sabastian was definitely the Best guy for Alexa!! He was Honest, respectful and a Gentleman. Sabastian lit up like a Christmas Tree when she picked him, and their HUG was a perfect fit and passionate.
    They are young and starting out and can build an Amazing life together.
    Could Steve give an update on Alexa and Sabastian?

  • Reply chaellExE September 28, 2019 at 12:43 am

    I need more videos about the hunter thing. Pls make it

  • Reply MsSpyNoodle September 28, 2019 at 5:53 am

    Quincy has a sexy voice❤️

  • Reply San Andres September 30, 2019 at 4:07 pm

    Gotta be hard for those guys to put a fake smile lol

  • Reply Crystalis Chronicle September 30, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    Quincy is the type of a man every female will take advantage of. He is too gullible and honest. THIS IS REALITY. and all you females are craving to use him. U kno it.

  • Reply Frankie Mendoza October 2, 2019 at 8:59 pm

    Quincy pretty successfully, sports and arts aren't to secure for what Q has under his belt.

  • Reply Cool Juanita October 2, 2019 at 11:31 pm

    Steve need to a have his own 12 corazones ?

  • Reply Saraa Awad October 3, 2019 at 12:22 pm

    Quincy Quincy Quincy ????????

  • Reply Jackie Legz October 4, 2019 at 9:12 am

    I most definitely would have gone for Quincy. He's so honest and Intellectual, you can feel that's he's genuine and he's got an edge too lol. Send him to meeeee??

  • Reply Brandon Berri October 6, 2019 at 9:24 am

    Sebastian is ma boy

  • Reply gameplayer502 October 8, 2019 at 12:30 am

    3:11student athletic like aka the cheerleading squad? ???

  • Reply BK Rigaud_ October 10, 2019 at 2:07 am

    She dumb for not picking Quincy.. the other dude definitely cheated on her 80 times

  • Reply Kevin Bryson October 10, 2019 at 3:10 am

    Man Quincy shoulda won ctfu

  • Reply Mariah Fleck October 10, 2019 at 7:09 pm


  • Reply Matthew K October 11, 2019 at 2:23 am

    all these guys r lame except quincy, hes a winner

  • Reply Mia Shalice October 11, 2019 at 9:44 am

    Quincy if you see this I'm single??

  • Reply Humbly Bless October 11, 2019 at 5:19 pm

    I wish we have a Steve Harvey in the UK ☹️☹️

  • Reply Jesus Omega October 12, 2019 at 1:51 am

    ☠️?went to highschool with Quincy hes a good cat

  • Reply 20 subscribers with no videos October 12, 2019 at 4:50 pm

    I was saying good answer like it was family feud

  • Reply Vaselineflute Tv October 12, 2019 at 7:01 pm

    Charlie and sebastian got lil kid answers lol quincy mature and grown

  • Reply Rob Flores October 13, 2019 at 7:19 pm

    I knew it was going to be him at the end

  • Reply Je'Lani Kitty October 13, 2019 at 8:17 pm

    Awee I wanted him ?

  • Reply Evvv No Name October 13, 2019 at 10:57 pm

    She picked the right one. Sebastian answered everything swiftly. That boy come from a Hispanic family, he knows what commitment look like.

  • Reply Evvv No Name October 13, 2019 at 11:00 pm

    All you hoes on here will never escape the cycle. Y’all want Quincy for his looks. Y’all sexualizing him. That’s all.

  • Reply Only Me October 14, 2019 at 2:25 am

    Let me get Quincy

  • Reply Qusay Saud October 15, 2019 at 1:29 pm

    What is the problem if you never been in relationship and you 22 omg

  • Reply Vanessa Grijalva October 15, 2019 at 9:13 pm

    I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship either, lots of dates but no relationship! It's totally okay Quincy! If you haven't found the right one, you haven't found the right one! It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you!

  • Reply Abel Segarra October 15, 2019 at 9:43 pm

    Mr.Harvey was a Mack back in the day. With a capital M.

  • Reply Will Wright October 16, 2019 at 1:05 pm

    These guys don't stand a chance! They all seem boring and plain. No character or charisma. I could be wrong but I doubt it!

  • Reply David October 16, 2019 at 3:42 pm

    She a pornstar ong ?

  • Reply EaseYourLife October 16, 2019 at 4:06 pm

    I love her smile

  • Reply Ricky Dominguez October 16, 2019 at 6:42 pm

    Yesssss sebby

  • Reply Isaiah Cairo October 17, 2019 at 8:59 am

    quincy keep ya grind up^brotha

  • Reply Jurei October 17, 2019 at 11:40 pm

    I havent even watched the video yet and I already know she chose the tall black dude

  • Reply CassiTheNerd October 18, 2019 at 5:55 am

    I was really rooting for Quincy- seemed like an authentically stand-up dude and that smile had me weak!

  • Reply VVeryRareAudie October 19, 2019 at 9:30 pm

    should of chose quincy!!

  • Reply Itz' BaNdIDo October 21, 2019 at 7:40 pm

    He just didn't liked her.

  • Reply Peachgames October 23, 2019 at 4:00 am

    It should’ve been Quincy and the middle guy had me dead, he wasn’t answering the questions and when she asked what wouldn’t you tolerate in a relationship he ended up saying what he would like in a relationship. Also Steve Harvey said Quincy was 20 after Quincy said he was 22?

  • Reply Ziotic October 24, 2019 at 6:22 am

    I already see a problem with her.
    Me: Hey Alexa

  • Reply Subscribe to me For no reason October 26, 2019 at 6:19 am

    I was going for Quincey and Sebastian was last pick in my opinion smh

  • Reply Scary Terry October 26, 2019 at 5:16 pm

    3:59 lmao the twins

  • Reply Alpha fiddlesticks October 27, 2019 at 12:31 am

    At 10:44, isn't that one of the actors from bigg Jah's "Lesbian Homie" series?

  • Reply Redgucci Shoes October 27, 2019 at 12:26 pm

    I 100% would’ve picked Quincy.

  • Reply Redgucci Shoes October 27, 2019 at 12:26 pm

    Quincy or more like Juicy??

  • Reply Boomer Sooner October 27, 2019 at 12:40 pm

    Quincy need to link up with Solotv84 he from Minnesota he’ll show Quincy a lot of females in Minneapolis.

  • Reply Trending Squad October 28, 2019 at 8:52 am

    Me:Hi my name is Tren….
    Audience: Starts Clapping

  • Reply Bee Mo October 31, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    Charlie and Sebastian were cringy

  • Reply Karel Vermue October 31, 2019 at 8:57 pm

    She looks like sam from icarly

  • Reply Sussan Wali November 4, 2019 at 3:13 pm

    Quincy is handsome and honest so he a good one

  • Reply Sussan Wali November 4, 2019 at 3:16 pm

    Yo I'm not even done with this vid but quency is my type of man …

  • Reply Evi Gavala November 5, 2019 at 8:48 am

    Am married,maybe I will go there to go viral ?

  • Reply iweird November 8, 2019 at 3:56 am

    Give me charlie Plz

  • Reply Jacob Gonzalez November 9, 2019 at 5:55 am

    Why would the black dude who had a girl even go on that dating show ? He just needed attention I guess

  • Reply Jacob Gonzalez November 9, 2019 at 6:00 am

    Steve’s “player” saying don’t work nowadays women just wanna know how much money you have and are you willing to spend a good amount of it on them

  • Reply maggie kearney November 11, 2019 at 8:43 am

    Honesty is definitely key especially if your in a relationship or not


  • Reply Kaylen Blake November 11, 2019 at 10:44 am

    I want charlie

  • Reply Stephanie Alvarez November 13, 2019 at 2:52 am

    Why is it that African Americans are always cheating!!! Whether they're Rich or poor, Always! … Maury, Jerry springer, basketball stars ,world star hip hop, They're always encouraged to be cheaters In their Songs!!! Thee most promiscuous people on Earth.

  • Reply Ahmad Ismail November 14, 2019 at 5:23 pm

    Quincy seemed to be a keeper.

  • Reply Queen Blessing November 15, 2019 at 5:21 pm

    I thought she was gonna pick Charlie.
    I wouldve picked quincy tho

  • Reply Am Cha November 15, 2019 at 7:24 pm

    Quincy a cool cat

  • Reply ZeKoolAidGuy November 15, 2019 at 11:52 pm

    anyone else see kassandra lee in the light blue shirt at 10:46 ?

  • Reply Zed King November 16, 2019 at 8:47 am

    Audience is all milfs are dying to screw young men 🙂

  • Reply Ifrad November 16, 2019 at 9:44 am

    Are you sure Sebastian wouldn't rather date one of the guys instead?

  • Reply Aly Abdel Dayem November 16, 2019 at 9:11 pm

    picked the gayest kid yo, Quincy was the right one

  • Reply Kelly Hill November 16, 2019 at 9:47 pm

    The way quincy was answering, he did not want her.

  • Reply NARC0 November 17, 2019 at 5:24 am

    Quincy never been in a relationship because all you hoes are unemployed & ain’t got nothin goin for ya

  • Reply S. Ava November 18, 2019 at 2:49 am

    11:29 yeet

  • Reply KSZN November 18, 2019 at 2:07 pm

    I’m so glad she picked him!

  • Reply Melissa Taskey November 18, 2019 at 6:56 pm

    I liked Steve better with JUST the mustache. That was his signature

  • Reply Chaitan Reddy November 20, 2019 at 9:20 pm

    Quincy looks like hes going places. Really impressed by him

  • Reply Joel • November 22, 2019 at 1:22 am

    Quincy is smart asf

  • Reply Saide Simon November 22, 2019 at 7:02 pm

    I got to give to the girl. I was 100 % convinced it was between the other 2

  • Reply Kadamoro Rofi November 23, 2019 at 5:05 am

    I really Liked Quincy .. He seems like a gentleman ?

  • Reply Ema Mitic November 23, 2019 at 3:35 pm

    They are soooo cute together???

  • Reply Wayne Harris November 25, 2019 at 7:01 pm

    3 little beta boys

  • Reply Jord_e_ November 26, 2019 at 5:43 pm

    shoooot, i thought she was going to pick quincy for sure

  • Reply Jazmin Lara November 28, 2019 at 4:49 pm

    Quincy is so cute ?

  • Reply Miranda Anderson November 30, 2019 at 12:32 am

    He gave the better answers thst forsure

  • Reply Aldrian Grose November 30, 2019 at 11:00 pm

    Got her ??????

  • Reply Aldrian Grose November 30, 2019 at 11:05 pm

    Steve Harvey just brought out three squares smh like there single. They look like virgins as well LOL.

  • Reply Isabella December 1, 2019 at 1:07 am

    Damn Charlie is so good looking
    He’s definitely my type

  • Reply عراقي هاوي December 1, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    What matters for them is just cute , no matter if He was a felon , stinky , lives off his other women , lives with his Mom , unemployed , does not have a degree , broke  that all don't matter.

  • Reply Shawn Gilliland December 2, 2019 at 8:11 am

    Was Sebastian wearing makeup?

  • Reply Naveen sodium December 4, 2019 at 8:34 am

    Guys please someone please help .. am trying to understand what Steve was say @4:40.

    Please type the conversation " I haven't met the right person who………………………….. !"

  • Reply ARNOLD WORLD December 5, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Steve , please can i share my life story with you

  • Reply Adrian Wiggett December 8, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    Why would that guy go on the program if he’s not single? ??‍♂️ Douche bag… Only three guys to choose from as a consolation? ?
    I love the Hey Steve videos.

  • Reply Princesa Gamero December 12, 2019 at 6:53 am

    Steve is the person who knows how to do his job!! Period.

  • Reply Oprah Williams December 13, 2019 at 2:41 pm

    After the introduction I choose Quincy cause he made me laugh and I like his glasses

  • Reply Jake Viktor December 15, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    this show empowers women and puts them on a peddle stole which isn't a healthy mindset.

  • Reply mariposas blancas December 15, 2019 at 3:00 pm

    better sooner than later haha poor thing

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